Nothing changes at a beta thinking level, we may ‘get’ the concept and patterns we perpetuate but we can’t move out of them. I’ve been working in this field for over 30yrs and use a range of techniques and modalities to get a client moving with passion again.
I work with the entire being of a person, their mind, their body, their heart/feelings, their astrological natal chart, their intutive selves and their connection to spirit (in whatever form or non form that might be).  By doing so a client begins to understand that they are far more than just one polarised aspect of themselves but an entire cosmology.  
Once a client has this awareness change starts to happen, a deeper understanding of the patterns, beliefs, conditioning that subconsciously direct us are brought to the surface and a new framework can be formed.
I work with adults, young adolescents and partnerships.  With partnershps it is very often that we are not expressing important parts of ourselves and can lose ourselves to the relationship.  Often our partners hold the very energetics that we seek in ourselves.  The dance of relationshp can be incredibly healing, it is a living entity that changes over time and unless we are aware and conscious of this that is where the rub can come and issues start to present.